This week we witness that to get the full value of Joy you must have someone to divide it with This week we Cherish the Love of Victor and Sharon Mokgabudi
Background
Groom: Mohabedu Victor Mokgabudi originally from Limpopo in Kgamphahlale but currently staying in Alexandra and fellowship at Tsutsumane AOG.
Wife: Sharon Mokgabudi born in Limpopo but grew up in Alex, also fellowship at Tsutsumane AOG.
We were blessed with two kids Lesedi (girl) and Lesego (boy)
We were blessed with two kids Lesedi (girl) and Lesego (boy)
We got married in 2012 December 1st.On a scale of 10 we can actually say it was 10×10. The wedding was so beautiful though the groom was late which is something that hardly happens but all was well. The rings got lost and we had to go look for them "you should have seen the look on Malindela's face when he was told the rings were lost lol" says the groom while laughing out loud.
But everything else was amazing, our worship team was so powerful to name a few Nombulelo Nchefu, Candy Siyema and Khaya Skhosana were there. It was just a beautiful day.
Your views on Love, Marriage and Salvation based on your experience?
Groom: If one person loves another it is a feeling that is explainable, you feel so content and complete. The church procedure does not make the marriage more Godly, it just helps the marriage to remain Godly.
Then the wife jumps in:Wife: No it just helps you to not impregnate one another because "LE RATA HO JANA" lol so mission approach is not really bad.
Do you think it is important to depend on God when you choose a spouse or when you enter into marriage?
Groom: It is very important as a couple to depend on God because he is he foundation to your marriage. If you depend on your feelings they will mislead you so as dreams, wife interferes "DREAMS DON'T WORK"!!!! lol I love this wife.
Back to the groom: I mean how many ladies as a guy you've dreamt about in your life? Are they all your wives now? NO, so you must pray to God and ask for direction, ask him to direct you to the right person and trust me he will definitely guide you.
With us it was very interesting because it was first the prophecy, then after, the man who prophesied said before the end of the month I will meet the woman I love. Little did I now it is going to be the woman I've known for most of my life.After that, one situation let to another and we are now happily married
Back to the groom: I mean how many ladies as a guy you've dreamt about in your life? Are they all your wives now? NO, so you must pray to God and ask for direction, ask him to direct you to the right person and trust me he will definitely guide you.
With us it was very interesting because it was first the prophecy, then after, the man who prophesied said before the end of the month I will meet the woman I love. Little did I now it is going to be the woman I've known for most of my life.After that, one situation let to another and we are now happily married
The biblical analogy is that the Bride is representation of Christ and the Bridegroom of God, Please both tell us your views on this and how true the statement is based on your marriage
Groom: biblically so, the man is the head to the wife but Christ is the head to the man and it comes to, Christ is the groom and the church is the bride. When Christ comes to get the church he will be fetching the bride. It's a symbol we are showing to the world that when Christ comes he fetches the bride and when the husband comes he takes the wife to his own house.
Wife: Calling is not in me, calling is on the man ( the wife is so honest lol) but I can say that not everyone can survive marriage, it is not a child's play (she laughs).
What do you love about your partner?
Wife: I love everything about my spouse, EVERYTHING!
Groom: What I love about my spouse is every little thing that she is, she interrupts "you call me little? " he ignores her and carries on lol. She's a good combination, she is easy to live with, she's just a darling. SHE TALKS!!! (I agree) people think she's actually quiet
but I think she's the most talkative person I know. I do love the talkative part because I don't have to come back home to a boring house, when she's around she brings happiness to the house.
Name one greatest benefit of Marriage?
Wife: SEX! (She answered this so quickly lol)
Hubby: Combination of blessings, you share everything and become one, the unity itself is a great benefit. Then the wife interrupts and justifies her SEX answer " I love short answers hence the answer " Victor replies "No you just love SEX".
What do you guys do for fun?
We do small talks and we do enjoy them. We love walking around the malls and we also enjoy swings and slides at the park.
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